tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3446963266718591011.post6132076240905433840..comments2023-09-28T00:45:14.887-07:00Comments on AspireNow: #1 Way to Improve RelationshipsSeriously Fun Self-help!http://www.blogger.com/profile/09566653166909254972noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3446963266718591011.post-78111949607925706052009-09-14T15:44:15.261-07:002009-09-14T15:44:15.261-07:00"When your Relationships are Good, your Life ..."When your Relationships are Good, your Life is Good." Very Smart Girls. I believe we have a significant amount of control over the quality of our personal and professional relationships. It starts with your attitude (as you mention) and your relationship intentions. www.VerySmartGirls.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06991247520889926375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3446963266718591011.post-49749320426641154242009-08-31T12:39:54.689-07:002009-08-31T12:39:54.689-07:00Nick - if someone is constantly criticizing you, I...Nick - if someone is constantly criticizing you, I have three questions for you: <br /><br />First, are you being defensive? <br />Second, are you wrong a lot? <br />Third, are you critical yourself?<br /><br />If your answer to #1 is yes, why are you defensive? If you've done nothing wrong, then the issue is your partner's issue, not yours.<br /><br />If your answer to #2 is yes but you&Seriously Fun Self-help!https://www.blogger.com/profile/09566653166909254972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3446963266718591011.post-7649542494949680322009-08-04T01:56:03.832-07:002009-08-04T01:56:03.832-07:00Scott, it's very good that you simplified the ...Scott, it's very good that you simplified the rule....seeing good and the best in our spouse....that is cool buddy...thanks a lot for the post...Michael Danhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14411890044217845702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3446963266718591011.post-10647732909273548102009-07-30T16:02:36.820-07:002009-07-30T16:02:36.820-07:00This is great, but what if it's the other way ...This is great, but what if it's the other way around? For example, if your friend continuously just sees everything you do as wrong, how do you deal with that?Nickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17082249792069520274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3446963266718591011.post-68434456544705308592009-07-24T09:22:34.800-07:002009-07-24T09:22:34.800-07:00Mark, Wayne Dyer would say "as you think, so ...Mark, Wayne Dyer would say "as you think, so shall you be" so why not think the best - what we WANT? :)<br /><br />It works as long as the other person isn't nuts! <br /><br />Jay, well, don't beat yourself up too bad. It is what it is. The important thing is what we do TODAY moving FORWARD! ~ ScottSeriously Fun Self-help!https://www.blogger.com/profile/09566653166909254972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3446963266718591011.post-15624405864046591202009-07-24T07:25:38.368-07:002009-07-24T07:25:38.368-07:00excellent point. In NLP we call it "doing a M...excellent point. In NLP we call it "doing a Mind Read". Essentially it's projecting your own reality into the interpretation of another.<br /><br />If you are going to assume definitely assume the best! Your body will thank you.<br /><br />Mark Shepard, NLPT<br />http://www.ModernJedi.commarkshepardsongshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10541460989414033182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3446963266718591011.post-35907469397790302622009-07-24T07:20:16.458-07:002009-07-24T07:20:16.458-07:00I wish I had a dollar for every relationship that ...I wish I had a dollar for every relationship that I have had that ended for this very reason. I'm a really good writer, but I don't always know the right thing to say or the right way to communicate verbally. So, I am often misunderstood. I wish I could give this article to all of my old girlfriends to read. Of course, the shoe has been on the other foot too, sometimes, so I wish I could Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02483343112522697347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3446963266718591011.post-81875332414921725882009-07-20T16:43:44.652-07:002009-07-20T16:43:44.652-07:00Hi LaRene,
Relationships CAN be hurtful, but they...Hi LaRene,<br /><br />Relationships CAN be hurtful, but they don't HAVE to be that way, agreed? It is not unusual that we beat ourselves (or our previous partner) up when things go different ways, but it is not necessary. <br /><br />We do not have to stay with a team, a company, a partner, a friend, a group, forever. If a union is no longer meeting our needs, and no longer fulfilling our Seriously Fun Self-help!https://www.blogger.com/profile/09566653166909254972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3446963266718591011.post-18813756775987888122009-07-20T15:58:40.481-07:002009-07-20T15:58:40.481-07:00Relationships was be hurtful. We will beat ourselv...Relationships was be hurtful. We will beat ourselves up after it does goes bad. Reading your blog brought back memories. Today, I learned to mentally put my arms around myself and tell me. "I forgive you for bringing the pain into my life. It's okay. We will get through this together."<br /><br />You will be so grateful to have someone close to you understand what it feels like. YouLaRenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10574249831390184275noreply@blogger.com